Do you ever get a nagging feeling that you should be doing something more important than what you are doing most of the time? I have had this feeling, and it’s been getting under my skin. You see, I have a pet project that I have worked on for some time. It is not perfect, but I have finally come to the realization that, with the limited time I have to work on such a time-consuming project, it may never be perfect, so I have decided to finally share it with you even though it’s still (and forever) in progress. I give to you Lavoce’s Directory: the most comprehensive and up-to-date (as in this decade, not the ’80s) Goth directory ever to be found on the Internet. The formatting is not the best and it’s not always in alphabetical order, but it is more useful for reviving the Goth community on the Internet than it is on my desktop. Even this introduction might not be the greatest introduction to such an amazing time-consuming project, but I hope that you can get some use out of it. Here you go!
If you have suggestions on how I can improve it, please email me at firstname.lastname@example.org. After I have posted the PDF online, I will be abandoning the PDF and will be moving it gradually to a software that will do a better job of formatting the directory for the Web. See the outline I have here: www.stylefreedominfomediary.com. I urge you to check in on my progress, but please be patient.
The Oxford English Dictionary defines “pavisand,” a verb meaning “to display an impressive or opulent array of clothing and ornament; to flaunt one’s appearance.”
Goths, freaks, and other fashion-oriented types (including the tattooed) live lifestyles of pavisanding. To us, there is no other way to be. Our bodies are works of art. We are artists first and foremost, and we want the world to know. I was expressing this to my mother the other day. She looked at me with a confused expression and gave me the trite question: “But isn’t that a phase?” Here we go again. You’ve all been there, haven’t you? You all know what it’s like to explain. I don’t know if it’s a personality type thing or not (like maybe only the introverted feel the need to express what their mouths do not), but for some reason it is a real challenge expressing why we express who we are. Apparently, many people do not feel the need to self-identify for strangers. My father tells me that he doesn’t understand why homosexuals feel the need to express who they are, thinking that what is one’s entire identity is merely a private act that should be kept secret. My mother tells me that she doesn’t understand why I also feel the need to state that I’m an adoptee, as if the fact that my race, being different from my parents’ race, should also be a private and secret thing even when it is clearly visual and easy to see even for Captain Obvious, and is an important fact to convey to a medical doctor. What are your feelings on self-expressions of identity? Why is it important to you? How do you explain this to others? I remember taking a philosophy class on identity. What a challenging class! Is identity even important? Why do we obsess about who we are? Why does it matter? Leave your comments below.
A friend just introduced me to a website about sacred geometry. I will not actually be talking about sacred geometry here. What really struck me was the man’s professional attire in the introduction video. I believe he is a very good example of a corporate goth. Take a look at his professional, but Goth-y* attire here: www.corelove.net.
For more examples, see his assistants here: www.corelove.com.
If you’re actually interested in sacred geometry, you can continue on with the first site. However, if it’s a little above your head, but you’re still interested in a toned-down version, check out their other site: www.sacredg.com.
This is not an advertisement for their products. This is merely to show everyone what I had in mind with my vision for Lavoce.
*I said “Goth-y” instead of Goth because I do not know how he identifies himself.
- Lavoce’s New Mission (lavocewap2.wordpress.com)
- Goth on Cup Day (littlebranch.com.au)
- Whitby Goth Weekend 2014 dates announced (cameraconnect.net)
- Is Goth Dead in North America? Vampirefreaks “State of the Goth / Industrial Community” Report Through Halloween 2013, Suggests it May Be On Life Support (prweb.com) (eBo says, “Oh no! We’ll see what will happen when Lavoce really gets under way.”)
- Understanding Goth History (history.answers.com)
To make the world suitable for freaks and make freaks suitable for the world.
Before I start such a long journey into researching the ins and outs, I believe I will write a book that can be used as the textbook, Formal Freaks. The plan is to make punks, Goths, tattooed people, skaters and outcasts into professional punks, grown-up Goths, trusted tattooed people, sharp-suited skaters, and generally, corporate outcasts. It will be for the people who are outcasts that want a better paying job to pay their bills and increase their standard of living.
Don’t get too excited. This entire project is still many years in the making, but it will get done eventually because…
- Book Review: Her Sky Cowboy (goddessinthestacks.wordpress.com)
- HIT or MISS: Glam Goth (ladycodeblog.com)
- Book Review: Half-Sick of Shadows- David Logan (alysinunderland.wordpress.com)
- Clear the Confusion about Ancient and Modern ‘Goths’ (gothicdressup.wordpress.com)
- Goth by Accident (tashasface.wordpress.com)
I have tracked several Goth sites for many years now and would like to share this list with all of you. All the sites listed here have staying power; they have been around for at least eight years, and they are still going strong. Considering how much has changed in both the Goth scene and the Internet world, this is an impressive feat, and I’m sure it makes the consumer feel a lot better that their favorite website will not turn into a pumpkin once the clock strikes midnight.
Recommended Links*: https://lavocewap2.wordpress.com/store/recommended-links/
Talking about pumpkins…what are your plans for Halloween?
*If you want to see the list of fetish (18+) sites, you will need to become a member.
- Gothic Photography (leahjenkinsblog.wordpress.com)
- Vampire Mickey Pumpkin Carving Template (spoonful.com)
- Halloween Pumpkin Carving Contest! (mypapershop.com)
- Create a frightfully fun environment for trick or treaters this Halloween (personalcreations.com)
- What Goth is NOT (christiangothchick.com)
I know that this is not about fashion-oriented people per se, but many fashion-oriented people, such as tattooed people can related. I was pleasantly surprised with how well ABC Family treated graffiti. The graffiti argument on The Forgiveness Tree episode of Switched at Birth really seems to express the feelings of those who like graffiti (or tattoos or whatever else), as well as those who just don’t get it.
Bay paints graffiti on her father’s wall at work. He is upset and asks her to paint over it, not knowing that she painted it herself. She argues with him about graffiti, being especially upset when he doesn’t differentiate between graffiti artwork and a tag.
This is what Bay says about why people, such as her, paint graffiti: It is people who are otherwise invisible, expressing themselves the only way they know how.
Eventually, someone convinces her that maybe if he knew it was her who painted the graffiti that his feelings for it would change, so she confesses that she did it.
Bay [to John]: thought you would like it
John [to Bay]: I feel like I don’t know you.
I’ve had my own moments like this. I feel the same way about my need to dress Goth and am glad to find a sentence expressing that sentiment so well. I have also been in the situation where I felt that my parents didn’t know me. However, ironically, it was lately that my father felt that I did not know him. We worked our way through that together and came out the other end alright.
To that I would add (and this is key) that you are responsible for your own perceptions. For those who grew up in the Christian tradition, and many of those who are Goths were (in my experience), the Bible says this same thing in a different way:
- Addicted to Switched at Birth On ABC Family (happilyblended.com)
- Switched at Birth/Memoir on the Fly (memoironthefly.com)
- Love Is In The Air: Learning True Forgiveness On The Radio (prweb.com)